Best Work Outfit of Fall 2009
“I’d just like to thank Banana Republic for creating this 1950’s throw-back black silk sweater, my vintage belt, the inventor of fishnet stockings, Sofft shoes and of course, that sleeper brand, always there for you when you are not looking, Anne Taylor. Without these brands and clothing items I would not be wearing what I am today. Oh! And I want to thank Everyday People Clothing Exchange in Uptown for their continued good work! Thank you! And to all the women out there trying to find clothes for work I have one thing to tell you- Don’t stop believing! Thank you!”
That is my acceptance speech for the “Best new work outfit of Fall 2009″ that I awarded to myself today. I think I will also award myself “Best use of used clothing for Fall 2009″ as well.
Seriously, my outfit is good today. What happened? A perfect storm of good items in my closet converged to create something fabulous!
-Have my favorite black silk sweater that is probably from 2000 or something
-New Anne Taylor red checked skirt (I wasn’t excited about it when I bought it, felt too ordinary, but boy am I happy today!)
-Interesting and occasionally difficult teal belt from the 70’s (I think)
-Good ‘ol fishnets to let people know that I know what I am doing
-Lovely black heels that are also comfortable
These all came together today. Could be a ho-hum outfit but the fishnets and belt turn it into something very different.
I am so pleased with how fast I put it together that I awarded myself a couple awards. Unfortunately my hair has some catching up to do in the awards department. We all have strengths and weaknesses.
Hmmm….I should go to a trophy store and commission a couple trophies for myself. That would be so awesome! I wish I had a mantle! Imagine people coming over to your house and asking you about your awards then telling them that they are for outfit construction and execution!
9 Hours later………
Ok. I received enough requests to see the award winning outfit that I have posted it here. There are only men in my office and I would never hear the end of it if I asked them to take a picture of my outfit so I can post it on my blog. I waited until I got home. I took the photo with my phone and yes, that blurry gray thing in the background is my cat.
You may not think it is spectacular but before you judge remember, I am not going out, I am not attending the Oscars, I am going to work. Also: I get to decide if my outfit deserves an award.
Send me your award winning outfits. I’d like to see them.
The Little Black Dress
Never gets old.
Why is this item so important? Because if you have at least one
perfect, flattering black dress it can, and will, solve almost any problem. If you don’t own at least one perfect black dress go out and find one. I say find as many perfect black dresses as possible.
“But I don’t want to look like everyone else! Everyone wears black.” -You
Yes, but will anyone wear it just like you? Black, and in particular, a little black dress can act as a canvas against which you can showcase your very best, most interesting, and most unusual pieces.
Remember that super-awesome cardigan you found? The one with the sequined ponies fighting the tigers? How are you supposed to pull that off? With your black dress. Boom. Problem solved.
If you know that you look good in that black dress (if you’ve checked yourself carefully from all sides) you can confidently wear that big, 1960’s-inspired orange necklace you found with the gold shoes you bought two years ago and you won’t look like anyone else in the room.
Example: My little black dress is very flattering, somehow makes me look taller, isn’t too low-cut, I can wear a regular bra with it AND it looks super cool with any of the following:
- my unusual, brass, super-tiny vintage belt
- my black cotton motorcycle jacket from the 80’s (sans shoulder pads)
- my new hot pink 1980’s crop top
- my very conservative, black Tahari bolo jacket (if I wear that combo, I am all set for the funeral of a very important political figure. If I ever need to go to one of those, at least I know I’ll have something to wear. Oh, and I will look really expensive).
And I just threw those things together in less than 10 minutes as I prepared for a wedding set for later on this week*.
I know the little black dress idea has been talked about forever but it deserves to be discussed. The concept of the black dress that is most important. Make it easy and show off the best of your body and the best of your wardrobe.
Don’t buy a cheap black dress either. You’ll be sorry.
*I have selected a brass belt, shawl/scarf thing combo by the way. Wearing this, I’m going to feel comfortable, confident, and sophisticated. Oh, and I have already decided that the only person who’s going to look better than me on Saturday is the bride. If I’m wrong, don’t tell me. I like to at least believe that I am the best looking person in the room even if I’m not.
How to Thrift: Part Three
In the Dressing Room and at the Register
Now that you’ve scoured the store for every likely and unlikely thing you want to try on, you’re ready to hit the dressing rooms. As always, things will be different at a thrift store in comparison to the dressing rooms at the Banana Republic. Take a read:
Go to the dressing room once
- You may have to wait in line for a dressing room. That’s ok. Check out the return rack while you wait. Someone might have found something great that didn’t fit. (It could be yours! Mwha ha ha ha ha!)
- Try to have everything in your cart for one marathon try-on session. It is easier to make purchase decisions when you compare all items next to each other.
- Always ask yourself if an item will make it easier to dressed or more difficult. Is this item going to work with you and your wardrobe or against it? Is it a new best friend or a closet space-taker waiting to move in?
- Remember the Used Clothing Buyer’s Guide.
Make purchase decisions
- Be judgmental. Don’t bring home clothes that you won’t wear (some risks are always a good idea).
- Is it worth the money? Is it on sale?
- Remember that thrifting isn’t about spending a lot of money. Always weigh out the cost before you leave the store $100 lighter.
- Do you need to have the item altered? Again, thrifting is about being thrifty. Is this item worth the investment?*
Go to the register
- Remember to be patient. There may only be one cashier. It is also a universal truth that someone in the line ahead of you will be giving the one cashier a hard time. Managers need to be called, prices need to be checked and sometimes people try to haggle over the cost of an item.
- While you wait you might as well go over your purchases one more time. Maybe there is something you don’t need.
Walk out of the store
- If you didn’t end up leaving with a lot of stuff, try not to be disappointed. There’s always tomorrow. Besides, you probably had a good time and learned something about the history of clothing in America.
Now, go home and wear your new stuff. Be proud that you saved money and know that you won’t look like everyone else.
* If you can sew, bless you. You have an extremely useful skill not many of us have anymore. I am proud of you and so is your mom, your grandma, and great-grandma! Speaking of alterations…um…..would you alter something for me?
How to Thrift: Part Two
In the Store
Grab a cart and check for sales
Save your arms, get a cart. While you pick up your cart see if you should pay special attention to blue tags, green tags etc. as you shop. Thrift stores, already inexpensive, have a lot of inventory and need to make room for more. They want it gone and will frequently have half-price sales on certain tags.
Become familiar with the layout the store and develop a game plan
How is the store sectioned off and which sections do you want to check out? This general game plan will ensure that you do not become overwhelmed and won’t miss out on anything.
Go through the store section by section
- Stick to your game plan. Visit women’s shirts, then dresses, then jeans etc. whatever you planned. One section at a time. Don’t dabble and don’t get distracted!
- Be thorough. I like to look at everything in each section I visit so that I don’t have a panic attack about missing out on something I didn’t see-but that’s me and I’m semi-pro.
- Take chances. You never know how something will look until you try it on. Can’t decide if that sweater is cute or ugly? Is that dress so bad it’s good? You won’t know unless you try it on. Some of the very best things I wear were guesses at the racks and winners in the dressing room.
- Don’t pay attention to the sizes assigned to racks. You will probably find things that will fit you in both the “small” and “large” section on a rack of shirts, dresses, or jeans. Why? For two reasons: items will be put back incorrectly by customers and store personnel alike. A particular item’s size is also closely linked to when that piece was created. When I thrift I can wear anything from a size 16+ vintage to a size 4 in something from the 1990’s (my modern size, if you must know, is a 6 or 8). Vintage clothes were sized differently (along with women’s bodies) and if we were to talk about vanity sizing, this post would get way too long.
- Do not rely on the racks that say “Better Brands” or “Brand Names”. These “better brands” are determined by whomever is sorting the clothes when they come in. Sometimes those sorters are really savvy about brand names, quality, and history and others remember their favorite brands from 1991 and have not progressed past it. Clothes on these racks can be priced higher than they should be just because the label was great 10 years ago. I will find these same brands mixed in with all the other clothes too. Don’t let store volunteers or employees be your taste makers!
If you’ve followed these tips you have filled your cart and are excited to hit the dressing room! In the next post we’ll talk about dressing room stuff and making decisions.
Cleavage at work?
I don’t have an answer to this question but I have been wondering about it for some time (especially now that summer is in full swing and we are wearing fewer turtleneck sweaters to work). I currently work with a lot of women of various ages and cleavage comfort levels. How much is too much? If you have a moment, an opinion or both please take a second and answer below:
P.S. I have never used polldaddy before so we’ll see if I did this correctly.
P.P.S. If you have a some advice or a funny story about this same topic please share. We can keep real names out of it or it could be about a “friend” of yours.